'The Muslimah Sex Manual: A Halal Guide to Mind Blowing Sex' by an Anonymous Author Umm Muladhat
A anonymous
author Umm Muladhat published a week before and 'The Muslimah Sex Manual: AHalal Guide to Mind Blowing Sex' (available at Amazon Kindle Book Store) and Muslim women are encouraged to
speak about what they enjoy and believe that they have a right to sexual
satisfaction.
The book starts with a small
incidental meeting with one of her friend as it is in her website “The MuslimahSex Manual” as it
is –“Two years ago, I was congratulating a young Muslimah on her
engagement. She was thrilled about starting married life and you could see the
happiness emanating from her as everyone gave her their best wishes.
A few months
later, I could tell something was wrong.
After some
cajoling, she shyly admitted the truth. Her sex life was horrible. In fact, it
was fast becoming non-existent. She had been a model Muslimah her entire life.
Before marriage, she had never so much as held a non-mahram’s hand, let alone
become physically intimate with one. She had eagerly looked forward to marriage
as a chance to finally indulging in all the physical intimacy she had postponed
for the sake of Allah.
But it wasn’t working.
Coming from
the medical field, she knew all the relevant biology. She could draw and label
all the parts of male and female anatomy. She had taken fiqh classes and knew
the legal rulings of menstruation and intercourse.
But she
didn’t know sex.
Oh, she knew
the mechanics. Insert penis into vagina. Climax. Withdraw. But she didn’t know
how to make her husband yearn for her in bed. She didn’t know what he liked.
She didn’t even know what she liked! They had begun eagerly but after a few
weeks, realized that neither of them was truly enjoying having sex with each
other.
And so began
my impromptu sex skills workshop. I threw at her all the information I’d
gathered over years of marriage. Things I’d learned from experience,
tidbits I’d gleaned from friends, tips I’d picked up from magazine articles.
One thing here, two things there. All those bits had accumulated into a very
healthy and robust sex life between me and my husband. I gave her everything,
fervently hoping that it would help her in her marital life.
A month
later, I saw her again. This time she had a gigantic smile on her face.
“Please, write this down and share it with other Muslim girls. No one teaches
this. We’re thrown into marriage and only know the fiqh and the biology.”
I wrote down
everything I told her on a Word document and emailed it to her. She shared it
with her friends who were newly married. They shared it with their friends.
Before long, word trickled back to me that people were asking me to write a
book on the subject.
So here it is.”
So here it is.”
Nabeel Aziz,
Becoming the Alpha Muslim writes in advance review “Having read it, I
can confidently say The Pure Muslimah’s Guide to Very Dirty Sex is the most
straightforward, practical, immediately actionable book I’ve read on the
subject of sex written by a Muslim. More importantly, it’s targeted and
specific, not generic and superficial. This is a sex manual written by a Muslim
woman, for Muslim women, with the intent to help them have raunchy, fresh, and
exciting sex lives. The author brings to bear all of her 30 years of marital
experience and gives the reader an explicit (though not inappropriately lewd,)
step-by-step breakdown on how to keep her husband sexually satisfied and
beaming from ear to ear. For many (too many) Muslim women, this is the talk
their mother should have had with them before their wedding night.”
The book is
currently available at Amazon Kindle Book Store
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